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How to Please a Woman-21 Tips to Get You There

There’s a burning misconception out there, by some, that women are difficult. Complicated. Too hard to please. I think that’s a rather large generalisation. I’m sure some women are incredibly difficult, just as some men are. I think it’s more a behavioural trait for some, regardless of gender. We are different, men and women, ofContinue reading “How to Please a Woman-21 Tips to Get You There”

When the Inner Work Yields Magic

I know, I know there’s a lot of chatter out there about the inner work and I understand a lot of people turn their nose up or simply think they have none to do. There’s also a lot of misconception and toxicity in the spiritual healing and growth world. Some people believe they can’t change.Continue reading “When the Inner Work Yields Magic”

There is More to Intimacy than just Sex

“Intimacy is being seen and known as the person you truly are”- Unknown. I was recently watching some guy on a reel, who popped into my feed, explain how we should all be ‘intimate’, at least three times a week for fifteen minutes. And as a man you should not take no for an answer.Continue reading “There is More to Intimacy than just Sex”

Chemistry, Love and Connection- My Interpretation

” It’s like this, one day you meet someone and for some inexplicable reason, you feel more connected to this stranger than anyone else”- Lang Leav I’ve seen a recent increase in social media “influencers” and “coaches”, sprouting their version of love. Chemistry. Relationships. Dating. Masculine and feminine energy. And the list goes on. ButContinue reading “Chemistry, Love and Connection- My Interpretation”

An Undeniable Love Story-The Truth of Love

So much has been written about love. There are books, movies, poems, quotes. There’s a whole industry focussed on selling love. Selling the fairytale. Selling opinions. Selling conditioned beliefs. Selling whatever people will buy. Whatever people will watch. Read. Listen to. Selling love like it’s some kind of commodity, and something people can search forContinue reading “An Undeniable Love Story-The Truth of Love”

If I Love You, I Will Promise You Nothing

I have been reflecting on my past relationships over the last few days. It’s been a reflective few months, with all the emotions I have felt. The grief of losing my mum and the joy of welcoming my granddaughter into the world. It’s been a lot, and it has catapulted me into this contemplative space—the raw emotionsContinue reading “If I Love You, I Will Promise You Nothing”

My List of Letting Go

Letting go can be hard, but it’s so much harder to hang on. We always hear the mantra “let go of what no longer serves you”. Sounds simple, I mean why would we want to hang onto something that does not serve us? That causes us pain, sadness, or simply blocks us from growth? People.Continue reading “My List of Letting Go”

How we try to solve childhood wounds through romantic relationships

I was with my husband for almost 30 years and since ending our marriage, I have been through a huge period of growth, learning, reflection and self realisation. Added to that my training, study and a specialisation in relationships, human behaviour and the games that people play- I have put together a post that IContinue reading “How we try to solve childhood wounds through romantic relationships”