Woman Unchained- I am already Free

There’s been so much talk about freedom of late. A “Freedom Day”, something so foreign to me in a supposedly free and democratic society.

We have been in and out of lockdowns, unable to see loved ones or partake in life’s usual activities, since the start of this Pandemic. And what these lockdowns have shown me, is that power, control and ego are very dangerous things. I have no issue with doing what is right for the safety of the community and to try and curb this virus, but I do question those in power and the double standards displayed.

Freedom is not something to be hijacked, held for ransom or manipulated by other people. We may have certain constraints but for me freedom is a state of mind, and that is something nobody can take away from me.

Whilst so many argue with each other. Spend their time bullying each other on social media and consider their most important freedom a trip to the pub, eating in a restaurant or wandering around a shopping mall, I have learnt to adapt. Yes I want to see my family and again travel but I have all the freedom right here within me.

  • I have the freedom to walk as much as I want and for as long as I want. In the neighbourhood, in nature or on the beach. Barefooted and grounded.
  • I have the freedom to witness a sunrise or a sunset. All the beauty and magic captured in the East or the West. Pure joy.
  • I have the freedom to dive into the ocean. The salt water washing over me, refreshing every cell of my being.
  • I have the freedom to sit on the beach alone or with a friend and eat a meal, have a wine, in what can only be described as the most spectacular view in the world.
  • I have the freedom to meditate and go within and visualise any setting I choose. To become totally present with the right here and right now.
  • I have the freedom to be grateful. Grateful for my life, my health, my tribe and the ability to pursue my passions intently.
  • I have the freedom to be kind. In a world where kindness is currently lacking, I can be kind.
  • I have the freedom to be compassionate. To help others in need and support them.
  • I have the freedom to love. To embody love and be love. To show love in all its forms. To love unconditionally and with grace.
  • I have the freedom to dance. To dance with absolutely no inhibitions, in my underwear. Music blaring. Food cooking, experiencing raw happiness.
  • I have the freedom to learn. To learn something new every single day. To challenge myself and experience new things.
  • I have the freedom to choose what I put into my body and how I take care of my body. Physically, emotionally and spiritually. Freedom over my health, fitness and wellbeing.
  • I have the freedom to not allow fear to engulf me. Fear of a changing world. Fear of a virus. Fear of people’s limited beliefs and opinions.
  • I have the freedom to speak my truth. To honour who I am in all its messy authenticity.
  • I have the freedom to follow my dreams. To heal my wounds. To grow and evolve.
  • I have the freedom to express myself. To be creative. To write from my heart in all its wonderful rawness.
  • I have the freedom to be who I am and love who I am, knowing that tomorrow’s me will be different than today’s me.
  • I have the freedom to unshackle myself from the bullsh*it. To walk away from unhealthy spaces and to trust those who earn it.

So “Freedom Day” is just a creation for those who feel trapped. Who need to perhaps run away from their life, accepting freedom as something that is given by those in power, but those in power can never take away the spirit of who you are, and that in itself is the biggest freedom of all.

I am a woman unchained and the only person who can put me in shackles is me. Freedom is the oxygen of my soul. I am free, I have always been free.

Published by Michelle

After a long marriage, 2 children (now grown), a separation and embarking on a brand new life, I have realised life is always a journey. I have made mistakes, I have hurt and been hurt, I have loved and I have lost and at times I completely lost myself and forgot the Queen that I am. As women we are the nurturer, the caregiver but sometimes we underestimate the Goddess within us and my journey has made me realise that when our crown is crooked, we need to adjust it ourselves and remember the Queens that we are! This will be a blog about what I have learnt, what I am continuing to learn and how we can help each other. I will talk about all things love and life and at times this will be controversial but life and love is never black and white but varying shades of grey. We live in a judgemental society and so many of us live our lives according to the expectations of others, rather than doing or being what truly makes us happy. I hope you join me on my journey and on my quest to find that Inner Goddess and we can learn from each other and we can discuss the judgements and societal expectations that hold so many of us back. It's time to seek our inner happiness!!

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