Twin Flames-The Ultimate Connection

A few people have asked me about this and being a huge believer that everyone comes into our life for a reason, I have researched and here is what I have found! We have all heard of Soulmates but not everyone is aware of Twin Flames. This is the most elusive, rewarding, transformative, often painful yet beautiful and deepest connection of all! Not everything in life makes sense because it’s not supposed to.

Twin Flames have an almost instant, instinctive and undeniably intense bond. There’s a point soon after meeting that they intuitively know they were brought together for an important reason. They know they have a significant role to play in each others lives. However, usually they are both initially perplexed as to how this energetic connection is so powerful, magnetic and strong so quickly.

Potentially Twin Flame relationships could be the most loving and transformational experiences, but often in the early months, even years, they can be filled with turbulence, trauma and pain. In the initial stages Twin Flames are known to test each and challenge each other relentlessly, to struggle and maintain control and balance in their lives. One of them usually in an egotistical battle. However, part of coming together is the opportunity to breakdown the ego and desire for control.

Despite Twin Flames having a unique and incredibly deep connection, they often find themselves physically separated. They often come into each others lives where they may not be ready for such a powerful connection, or they maybe committed elsewhere and so the rollercoaster begins. Often unable to be together but struggle to be apart. A Twin Flame unity is a higher calling and for it to function healthily, four main elements need to be balanced.


When Twin Flames meet, their heart- centre opens and they feel compelled to love deeper and harder than they ever thought possible. The heart is a humans thinking and feeling centre and generates energy that allows us to communicate energetically with those we share such a deep and loving bond. Twin Flames are energetic mirrors and when they are in contact, they reflect one another’s flaws, faults and insecurities. Although this can feel like a negative aspect of the dynamic, it is an extremely positive one.

To find balance, it is essential to know where unresolved issues and unhealed wounds are hiding. Twin Flames trigger the hidden emotions that weren’t acknowledged, accepted or loved in the past. They highlight the shadow sides so forgiveness and understanding can be found. They learn to love themselves and others unconditionally and limitlessly.

When these couples meet, it’s common for them to quickly fall into deep, unconditional love. Whenever they think about, or are in contact with their Twin Flame a euphoric, loving feeling arrives in waves to give a teaser of the sensations that will permanently be felt when they learn to love and accept themselves completely. The Twin Flame emotional connection, requires each of them to courageously and vulnerably open their heart while taking the risk that they maybe rejected or hurt in the process. If both are able to do this they will be rewarded through experiencing the highest and purest form of love.


A strong mental connection exists between Twin Flames. They are so intrigued with each other and always feel the desire to be in contact (when not in separation). Time and space vanish and all that is left is an electrically charged, mind blowing vibe that can quickly and easily become addictive. The brain is stimulated, alert and curious and sees the other person as magical and mystical, causing them to pay acute attention to every nuance expressed. Twin Flames may appear opposite, however, they compliment one another and open up each others awareness and perception to achieve balance.

They quite often feel passionately about the same social causes and issues. They may find they have certain talents and skills that when joined together, help complete their purpose. When Twin Flames connect their abilities are strengthened, often taking a journey of transformation, which would have otherwise not occurred, if they hadn’t met. They give each other the confidence to achieve goals they had only previously dreamed of.


When Twin Flames meet, there is an intense physical and chemical attraction, which releases Kundalini energy, an awakening energy stored at the base of the spine. The flow of Kundalini energy accelerates spiritual growth and forces both partners on a personal and deep soul journey, where they question various aspects of their lives as a whole. They suddenly begin to look at themselves anew.

The awareness of their flaws and faults is what often causes Twin Flames to remain separated for periods of time. As they focus on healing emotional wounds and breaking cycles of dysfunctional patterns. It can take time before both have completed the soul work necessary to reunite.

When they meet there is is an unexplainable and powerful physical attraction which is magnetic. The merging of two energy fields feels surreal, as it will be the first time they have been in the company of someone with the same unique energetic signature. Both are radiating energy on the same frequency. The energy feels harmonious and incredibly attractive to one another. There is a profound feeling of oneness.

The physical connection is NOT purely based on sexual attraction, it is also how the energies feel, when they are in close contact. However, when there is sexual contact, the two communicate with their bodies in a primal and instinctive manner. They will never encounter another sexual experience like this, as they will never encounter that energy.


This connection is a rare and sacred occurrence. Once they meet they are propelled onto a wild and explosive journey, to unravel the secrets of unconditional love and transform themselves. The dynamic causes both people to evolve at a higher speed than before they met. Often the relationship is turbulent with many ups and downs, heartbreak and separations. However, at each stage there are lessons that empower each of them and provide them with knowledge. Twin flames work separately to become the best versions of themselves.

They often go through a separation period and although it can be immensely painful, it is essential for healing. Separation is however, an illusion. Everything connects through energy and Twin Flames are connected and share a bond and love for one another, whether they are in direct contact or not. They must feel complete individually before they are able to feel complete together. They reunite when they have released and cleared ego-placed emotional, physical, mental and spiritual obstacles that prevent them from re-igniting their energetic balance.

A Twin Flame relationship is different from a Soulmate. It is the only type of relationship that requires both people to be ready emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually but once that time comes nothing comes close to the divine union they will share. Will everyone experience this? No, not everyone will be fortunate enough to meet their Twin Flame but if they do, their life will be forever changed. An energetic connection that can never be severed and an awakening that can only occur when the two souls meet.

“Every soul has a twin, a reflection of themselves, the mirror, the kindred spirit. No matter where they are in life or how far away, if they are meant to meet, they will find each other. They will teach each other. They will crack each other open to let the light shine in. This is destiny. This is love.”

Published by Michelle

After a long marriage, 2 children (now grown), a separation and embarking on a brand new life, I have realised life is always a journey. I have made mistakes, I have hurt and been hurt, I have loved and I have lost and at times I completely lost myself and forgot the Queen that I am. As women we are the nurturer, the caregiver but sometimes we underestimate the Goddess within us and my journey has made me realise that when our crown is crooked, we need to adjust it ourselves and remember the Queens that we are! This will be a blog about what I have learnt, what I am continuing to learn and how we can help each other. I will talk about all things love and life and at times this will be controversial but life and love is never black and white but varying shades of grey. We live in a judgemental society and so many of us live our lives according to the expectations of others, rather than doing or being what truly makes us happy. I hope you join me on my journey and on my quest to find that Inner Goddess and we can learn from each other and we can discuss the judgements and societal expectations that hold so many of us back. It's time to seek our inner happiness!!

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